Happy holidays

It’s been too long since I’ve posted here. Then again, I don’t want to nuisance your email. But I DO want to remind you to gift a copy of Shanghaied to everyone on your Christmas, Hanukkah, or any other list. And don’t forget your book club members. So, I’m back.

If there’s a “message” I’ve re-awakened to this year, it is “appreciate what we have before it’s gone.” And who we “have.” People I love, people I know, people I’ve heard of…died this year. Some at a ripe old age, too many too young. “I didn’t realize, can’t believe I’ll never see them again.” Of course, it happens every year. Just some years closer to home. We never know whose turn is next or when. So, don’t wait. Follow your heart now. I took the hint and traveled last month to reconnect with dear friends from years past for an 80th birthday.

I’m not saying “old” friends because “old” has taken on less relative/more literal meaning for me. “Old.” Like the old tree in this photo, progeny of this miracle planet. Like each of us, not to be taken for granted. LIFE, if we pay attention, is revelatory. And there is always more to be revealed.

I recently stumbled across some of my old writing from a period of intense challenge and grief, and I didn’t recognize my own revelatory voice. While I wouldn’t wish such a period on anyone, I found the intensity it demanded… addictive. In that particular case, we couldn’t know what would be required of us next. So, I wrote, “Instead of seeking what to do, seek readiness for whatever it will be.” “Seek readiness” sounds like broadly sage advice. Did I need to be reminded?

This and every season, may we be adventurous, inspired, kind and generous. May laughter surprise us and tears enrich us. May we better the world, and may that be our reward.